A New Year...

Is about to start and I don't know how I feel about it?

On one hand, I am oh so grateful for getting yet another year here on earth but on the other hand, I am thinking "yet another year in the same track...arghh"

Why can't I get my thoughts together and focus on one thing...I keep trying but my attention just gets pulled in another direction...

This year I HAVE to do something cause I can't fathom the thought of going through yet another year on the same spot!!! DREADFUL!!!

One thing I have done to prepare for next year's Christmas is I have already written down my Christmas card list, filled it out with addresses, etc.

Every year I want to do it but every year I think of it too late because I don't have addresses readily available and have to ask,I have asked before but when you write things on a small piece of paper you are bound to lose them, or at least I am 🤦‍♀️

I need to plan more and follow through more...I NEED TOO!!!

So far I am off to a good start 😅😂

Morning Coffee ChitChat May 10-2021 – Bad Weather

My Morning Coffee ChitChat May 10-2021 – Bad Weather broadcast today is not the best yet. First I am fairly new to doing videos, by that I mean, filming, editing, adding text and all that jazz…second, my mood follows the weather I have noticed 🤦‍♀️… and yesterday the weather was ☔🌧️

If you click on this LINK you will see my previous episodes, not many as of yet….-LOL

However, I hope to be able to figure out this app, create topics to talk about, and a set time, if I figure all that out, then I believe it will only get better and better 😉

If you have any suggestions I would LOVE for you to comment on them below so that I can take a look and consider creating topics out of your suggestions 😊. Maybe I will request you join me in my broadcast if you’d like that of course

Well, I guess that is all I have to say for today…So with no further ado…you can now listen to my “braindead” talk from a rainy gloomy day…hahaha

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So I am back on Happs, chatting away not knowing what the hell to talk about and just grabbing from thin air…LMAO….🤣

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Ready For Some Morning Chitter Shatter?

Hi everyone, today I stumbled over this app called HAPPS, an exciting new platform!

I was looking for a better streaming service to simultaneously broadcast to all of my social channels and see all of your comments in one place.

This is my first ever broadcast using HAPPS but DEFINITELY not my last…
AND the best part…it makes it super easy for me!
So I will be hosting Morning Coffee broadcast from this streaming service, however, I have no set dates and times but will do my best to give notifications about 15-30 min in advance 🙂

Also if you enjoy my broadcasts, I encourage you to download the Happs app today and subscribe for more content.

They even give you 100 FREE coins for joining – which you can use to support my work! 😉

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I came accross this commercial on youtube and thought it was funny…so I am sharing it 🙂

The Biggest Dream Killer…

Lord knows I have dream killers, not only one but many, and one of them is the big “But“…

But” is the biggest dream killer…
“I would have, but“, “but you see….”, “but I can’t…”
All the “but’s” simply come from a place of fear… A place of insecurity and
the only person it hurts is ourselves.
Check out this video about our biggest dream killer…” but
But (lol) before you start you should know your why! To learn more about your why check out this post


Ok, so I am not trying to hide it…I am in many programs and have bought into many things that I believe in, however, I CAN NOT promote or concentrate on all of them, it’s just not possible! But I can’t miss out (God, one never knows…LOL) so I have decided to list EVERY PROGRAM I have bought into or am part of in some way or another on this page.

Now Like I said, I am NOT promoting everything but I am sharing! So if you want to take a look you are welcomed to do so 🙂

You might have seen some of them advertised around the internet advertised as a company for you to join and make money off. However, if you see them listed under a different category on my page here, it is because I have chosen to either promote it or list it as a shop.

So if you have been shown CTFO (aka Change The Future Outcome) as an MLM/Affiliate program and I have listed it under SHOPS, then it’s because I am not promoting it as an opportunity but as a place for you to shop! Capish?

Also, as you might…or might not have understood, I am involved with MANY PROGRAMS and thus need to concentrate on one (or two) programs at a time. So, for now, it is

#1. Builderall and Groovefunnels. Two platforms that have EVERYTHING YOU NEED to create whatever it is you want to do online! You only need one of these two though but of course, I can’t…LOL

#2. My Online Startup is just VALUE PACKED with a FREE version. The reason for that is I am tired of all the BS that the “gurus” are serving for $$$$$$ and I am finally going back to basics AND learning!

#3. BUILDERALL  because it’s just AWESOME!! So those three ones are the ones I am building on for now!



NowLifestyle – is a fitness program that also is an affiliate program. I do like this affiliate program, however, I live in Norway so I can’t utilize everything they offer 🙁



Nuskin USA – Anti-aging facial/body washes etc. products I LOOOOOVE nuskin products and I use them!

Nuskin Norway – Anti-aging facial/body washes, etc. products

ShopKula – Store

CTFO (Changing The Future Outcome) – I don’t really know much about the benefits of HEMP but I have picked up that there are many benefits so I signed up…lol

SavingsHighway – I have no idea what this is but hey, feel free to figure it out yourself…

Oriflame – For makeup

Jewelry store – For this, I have used Groovefunnels and I am building out another store using Groovefunnels Groovekart!



GroovefunnelsSAME as Builderall but I believe in the long run it may be better than Builderall (not sure though but I bought the lifetime membership)

Builderall – Get EVERYTHING you need to run a Digital business for ONE low monthly pay

My Online Startup – Great for people new to affiliate marketing

Kulabrands – Get paid royalties over and over from ONE purchase (This program I should actually promote more but it’s a little bit to understand and I just don’t feel like getting into it right now but eventually I will cause this is the BOMB!)

Easy1up.com In this program, you can start off with low investment and then build yourself up. It is a training program, which I actually forgot I had and when I remembered I already was deep into other stuff…(me in a nutcase)

NetworksolutionsPro – For the freebie seeking. It’s a good program to use if you are tight on a budget.

The Super Affiliate Network – Another great program I bought on a whim and didn’t utilize as I should have

ORU Travel – Travel engine

My Virtual Downline Builder – Now just to warn you. This is no walk in the park, there is a lot of setups to do insider this program so brace yourself 😉 But look on the bright side; you only need to do it one time!😉

Getresponse – Which I can not let go of!


I get traffic from this page, this page and this blog (hihi…this blog is only about affiliate marketing and MLM), and of course social media.



reach for the stars

I don’t know about you but I have always for some reason been interested and self-improvement, I have tried to read a lot of books (haven’t managed). I try to absorb people’s reactions and behaviors in various scenarios. I try to watch my own actions and behaviors and then analyse them. I don’t know it probably started with…have no idea?

But I believe self-improvement starts with self-awareness and a lot of people are not self-aware.  However, people can point out faults in other people but not see the same faults in themselves.

Here is an example, there are many examples but I’m going to give you one for now.  My mum, for example, has always been very good at pointing out other people’s faults not realizing she has the same faults. She can go into a store and ask for help. She gets help and afterwards, she can complain to me about how rude the associate was, not realizing she approached the associate with a grumpy face, accusatory voice, short and rude herself??? The times I have tried to point it out she gets angry and does not take even one second to reflect. She just starts yelling at me. She has always been this way!

I am not perfect!

I am not perfect myself. I don’t always self reflect (sometimes because I just don’t feel like it) but I’m aware of it and I try to watch how I reflect on to others. The times I realize that I’m behaving badly I don’t have a problem correcting myself (if I feel up to it). However, a lot of people have problems with being corrected and with correcting themselves. Therefore I believe self-improvement should be its own class in school. I believe the world would be a much better place if we were obligated to improve ourselves.

Change my “core”


My journey in my self-improvement is far from over.  First, in order to be able to change my “core” which is hard. I don’t think anyone really manages to do that but I think we create mechanisms to work in our favor. I think being aware is number 1. Then comes the books and then comes the exercises. If you are interested in reading how you can get started in small steps, read this article over at Inc.com

This year…

This year

This year I’m really ready to create a change. I have decided to be a kinder person. Dare to be afraid and really try to read a book a month. I don’t know if I’m going to manage but I’m going to try!

Write a minimum of one thing a day that I’m grateful for and I will do my best to replace one bad habit to start. This has to be taken in small steps because of my ADHD, as soon as I do one thing too much, everything falls apart.

Almost last but not least, accept who I am. Accepting who I am is one of the hardest parts I think. Number one is to believe in me, belief in myself!

If you don’t believe in yourself why should anyone else believe in you?

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Tik Tok is such a time waster, but I can’t help using countless times browsing through Tick Tok on my phone. Then I decided to check it on my pc…argh 😖😫 what a dumb idea….

Anyway, I also decided to share the funny tick tock’s here on my blog so here goes the first one…🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

@ahmed_al_shaban99##😂😂😂 ##explore ##laugh♬ Laxed (Siren Beat) – Jawsh 685

A brief-brief explanation.

ADHD is short for Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder which is a medical disorder. It is a neuro-developmental disorder and unfortunately, it’s incurable but treatable. This disorder affects kids as well as adults. If it’s spotted at an early age and you receive good treatment and an educational plan, it can help a child or adult with ADHD manage their symptoms.


The treatments available are stimulant and non-stimulant medications, cognitive behavioral therapy, ADHD coaching and strategies such as mindfulness meditation and exercises. Remember ADHD is not the same for everyone! There are 3 different presentations – inattentive, hyperactive-impulsive, and a combination of both.

As with most disorders, ADHD is also on a spectrum with a range from mild to severe. ADHD is often accompanied by other conditions like anxiety or depression and learning disabilities like dyslexia. Therefore, what works for one person with ADHD may not work for another person with ADHD. Most ADHD people benefit from a combination of treatment strategies.

Medication is not a cure-all answer!

I am NOT a medical professional!

ADHD can ONLY be diagnosed by a medical professional!

For a more in-depth explanaition go here American Psychiatric Association

I think we can say most young people have a defining moment in life realizing that it’s time to get serious about life and grow up. The reason I say most is that that did not happen to me, although I felt grown enough to have a daughter!!!

Anywho, this is a process of spiritual, physical, social, financial, and spiritual awakening and it all happened in my 40’s.

This moment could be brought on by a challenge, a failure, a life struggle, or any other thing. It’s different for everyone but it’s unmistakable when it happens to you.

How do you go about making this change in your life? Especially if you have spent most of your life up to this point living with family, without full responsibility for yourself, or even being watched over by parents? It’s not as complicated as we make it. Start where you are no matter what your situation is and where you are in life!

Self-Development Is A Thing

Part of growing up is self-development. Mastering oneself and being able to care for oneself is just the tip of the iceberg. Becoming your ultimate self is a big part of personal development. 

“Self-actualization, in Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, is the highest level of psychological development where the “actualization” of full personal potential is achieved, which occurs usually after basic bodily and ego needs have been fulfilled” (Wikipedia).

Yes, now you are at the age where no one is going to do it for you, nag you until you do the work, or push you unless you have some sort of mental disorder like me, I have ADHD. 

Although most people mature to the “It’s up to you to push yourself and work on personal growth” It is a hard and sometimes impossible task for ADHD people to ever reach this level but when and if we do it’s an empowering and exciting experience to explore yourself and grow. 

All The Feels

Learning to handle problems with grace, manage emotions, and control anxiety and stress are all part of growing up. Emotional regulation and emotional intelligence are critical skills in adulthood that ADHD people lack without medication or some sort of help.

Add to that being able to effectively communicate your feelings assertively. Much of this is learned from experience. Learning to think before you speak and react to stressful situations calmly is a huge level up in life (which I wish I had mastered at a young age). 

Let’s Be Honest

Part of being an adult is being honest. Sometimes that is easy. Sometimes that is gut-wrenchingly hard. Maturity brings the discipline to stay true to your morals and values and part of that is being a truthful honest person. Add in the idea of trustworthy-ness. Being trustworthy means you do what you say you will, that you are reliable, and do the right thing even when no one is watching.

It’s Your Responsibility

Another aspect of maturity and personal growth is being responsible. Reliability and responsibility are the pillars of adulthood yet very hard for most people. You need to be able to be counted on and many people fail. You don’t have to be a natural at reliability. Use tools while you get into the swing of things. Use calendars, planners, and reminders to ease the transition. Do what you say you will do and don’t promise what you can’t deliver. 


Care about people. Be thankful. Be grateful. No this is not the inside of a greeting card. It’s simple advice for personal growth. Learning to realize that no man (or woman) is an island is part of growing up. 

Independence Day

Being independent means many things for many people. Having a job or paying bills can be independent. Grocery shopping and cooking can be a part of independence. Whatever life asks of you; maturity will help you in handling the tasks that come your way. Think of adulthood and growing up as handling business. Yeah!

Whatever comes your way you are capable of rising to the task at hand. Don’t wait. Rise up to the challenges of your personal growth. Life is an adventure and you are ready, if not hang in and hang on…you will eventually get there…

I am and it has taken me 40 years 

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